Thread:Goddess Ilias/@comment-4407082-20150926021038/@comment-25930818-20150927140939

I guess it's a question of where one draws the line between rough sex and, y'know, actual violence. How hard does a hellhound have to bite you before a display of affection and ownership becomes "Oww you fucking bit me with flaming teeth"? How hard does a vampire have to slap you before bdsm-play becomes "Oww you fucking slapped me"? How hard does an ogre have to punch you before her preferred method of foreplay - a sparring wrestling match - becomes "Oww you fucking punched me"?

Bundle all this up with the fact that what an ogre thinks is sexy-sparring might be substantially different to what a human thinks is sexy sparring, and you've got ample scope for manono just doing what they think is normal but for humans it's abuse.

And to prevent us from getting all ethnocentric here, don't forget in many religions (*cough*snackbar*cough*) you're kind of expected to slap your spouse about a bit to remind them whose boss - to not do it is considered to be bad for both him and her, because if she starts getting notions above her station in the grand scheme of things that'll just be a recipe for disappointment and bathos in the future. I can easily believe that most monstergirls live a genderflipped version of those mores.