Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-43782881-20200803074517/@comment-43782881-20200804191504

I super appreciate the extra commentary from Vegan and Galeah, in addition to Reptile KIng, since it made it feel like more of a discussion, and I think this ran pretty smoothly.

But again, to Jova-Vegan said it more bluntly than I was trying to, but I'm absolutely not watching those videos you linked. Men talking about their awful relationships on youtube, where they can be watched by thousands of people, that is a pit that I want to stay far away from. I'm getting the impression that you're in that pit and now you think you've got everyone figured out. But you don't. You can't judge how an entire subset of the population thinks based just on your experiences, or even those of a few hundred other men. Like, talk to more people, change your approach, don't be a jerk, figure out what other people are doing. There're no good that can come from lsitening to guys who think all women are judging you based on some invisible hierarchy.