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Rep... I hoped you would be faster than me.

"The exact same advocacy feminists do for rape victims can be used to help male rape victims."

Nope. Now this is from slightly different topic, but as in psychology, it applies. Male and female are hardwired quite differently, and what is helpful for females, might be extremely harmful for men. I'm talking about PTSD You probably know that majority of psychiatrists are females, and they have used certains methods, mainly talking about what caused the bad feelings, and then solved them. And it works wonders for females. but on males. not so much. You have probably heard that when US soldiers have come home from Vietnam at one point, and Afghanistan lately. They have been treated, as female would be treated talking about the things that they saw, and experienced. The things that the male had at least partially gone trough themselfs, and pushed on the back of their mind. Sure they would hit bak from there every now and then, but that's why they go to see the psychiatrist. So they go over these things, over and over live those unpleasent memories again and again, and bang... The veteran just became a statistic... suicide victim. What was ment to help, caused that death.

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Feminism is focused on solving women’s problems, just like many other organizations and movements meant to help certain groups or populations. But their efforts, their principles, can be used to help men.

To certain extent I actually agree.

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You know where I see mockery of fragile masculinity? Men who are so afraid of looking weak they’ll refuse to wear certain clothing. Men who have no basic housekeeping skills because they expect their mom or girlfriend to do it all.

Conservative Christians and feminists are not friends. Feminists don’t actually support the notion that men should be strong and emotionless because that mindset leads men to hurting themselves, other men, and women.

Now this is the good stuff I was kinda waiting for. a thing that I could go on for hours. TL:DR Males date down, males date up if they can. Females practicly NEVER date down.

Let's make a short story: Story of one woman.

Ever heard a question, "Where have all good men go?" That question has been asked more and more frequantly in last 10 years. mostly by somewhat successfull 30+ year old females. who are looking to settle down. Anwser is: radical feminism has killed majority of them. as currently the man who marries them is an idiot. (I'll get to that bit later) What I mean is. Those females especially the better looking ones had monopoly, They could choose the guys they wanted to date. and most of them chose the good looking bad boy. Wither to just have fun with, or try to marry them. If the wanted to marry that guy, he gave thrill of the chase, Afterall, there was 20 other girls wanting that very same guy at the same time. She got him, Great, but the marriage lasted mighty 3 years because the guy turned out to be an asshole. Well, not allways, but most of the time. Or she didnt get him. But oooh there is another good looking bad boy with only 18 females looking at her, maybe she can get that one?

Now she is 34, But at least she has been successfull in her carreer. she really wants to settle down with a good man, But she makes allmost 6 figures, Therefore the man has to make 6 figures. Afterall, He has to be at least equal, and at least as good looking as she rates herself. Except finding such guy who isn't allready married is... well she most likely can get one on a date, fool around with one, but he wont marry her. Why?

Because she's not young and hot anymore, That guy who isn't married and makes 6 figures, He has options, and if he isnt married yet, he's fooling around with 21-26 year olds. Of course he could settle down, buy a house, father some kids, but because he is still a bad boy he isn't going to do that.

Or maybe she actually found a good guy who divorced her wife as things just didnt turn out and she found someone better. Which is unlikely, as the man would have lost so much in the divorce, so he did his everything to keep her successfull wife happy.

And the pattern continues, She's 42 now, still single, But can't lower her standards. She's making 6 figures now but the man again needs to make more than her. and he might actually find one now that he's divorced, and bitter about that divorce. His ex got the custody of their kids, He had to sell his house which he paid to pay the divorce, and he still pays alimony every month. Ok he has had it rough. And he is now bitter. He isnt going to marry anyone again. He once was the good guy that didn't get much attention from females because his looks maybe? But he isnt going to marry anyone, He might date, and fool around with some females, But its very unlikely that he would cohabit with anyone ever again.

And what about the average guy, who never got a good job? He's with average female who never got as much as his husband got. Sure he wanted that slightly hotter female, with maybe some success in her carreer. but she never gave him a chance.