Talk:Hakutaku/@comment-26347931-20160330172508/@comment-27950421-20160402211417

Well first things first, if there's a mamono you want to be with come out and say it. If you are already tacken by a mamono the chances of your opinion being heard and respectef go up dramatically in whether you have a harem and/or who is in it. The rule of thumb is that mamono don't want to see their husband suffer. Even dark elves, while they want to inflict pain on their husband they want him to enjoy it, if he's genuinely unhappy with his life and attempts to teach him the "joys" of being a masochist don't work than they will do something else. Once you have your first wife, make your opinion known, if you prefer monogamy than they will likely respect that and move on. If you want a harem but refuse a mamono for one reason or another than they will either move on or try to change themselves to earn their place, or they may try to "teach" you to enjoy the thing that you're refusing them for or that the thing you're refusing them for doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things. Other than that, I refer you to the advice that BTR and Flinnt have already given.