Talk:Alp/@comment-26097222-20150211124621/@comment-25035274-20150212015913

The thing I see you as missing(and we clearly don't agree here) is that sexuality, IE sexual attraction, actually does require that you feel a sexual desire for someone.

It is as simple as that, even if it is a sliding scale(which I agree with, actually). Sexual attraction does require you to feel sexual desire. If the idea of sleeping with a person of the same gender fills you with disgust on an instinctual level? You are not homosexual.

The fact that a man does not have any interest in the cock does not, however, mean that that man is not capable of dressing to impress. It is, in point of fact, a basic biological imperitive. We do not do it because we have repressed homosexual desire. We do it because we are animals, and animals put on displays to attract a mate (usually of the opposite sex, unless we happen to slide more towards the bi- or homo- parts of the sexuality spectrum).