Thread:AngryLance/@comment-39280634-20200406054104/@comment-27666783-20200412213130

AngryLance wrote: @Everyone: I got aquestion for you.

How do you guys feel about dom-sub 'relationships' ? Do you think that they are rather unbalanced and unsafe ? That it can lead to power abuse and any other number of unpleasant things from here ? That the 'dom' doesn't always treat his/her 'sub' all that well ? Or am I being paranoid ? Just something that started bugging me for a few hours now. The running joke among D/S communities is 'How much power does the dom have? As much as the sub allows.' Its sort of the oxymoronic elephant in the room. The ability to control YOURSELF is as much to do with this sorta thing as the ability to control a loved one. A dom likes to 'expand the limits of the sub's threshold' and all that, but one who can't keep a lid on their own shit isn't a true dom, thats just an insecure mess with daddy issues.

Forget about the people who spread the edgelord shit, you'll come to find that those types that try to perpetuate that shit have self-esteem issues out the ass, and use the abusive fetish as a coping mechanism. Its hardly healthy, and those that do probably need therapy.