Talk:Monster Girls/@comment-37028137-20181014200554/@comment-32042142-20181014204630

1 - It's never explicitely said, generally people assume it's human-like, maybe a bit faster for insect mamono for example.

2&3 - The man is treated as a 'slave', but not horribly, the mamono love him and treat him mostly nicely, it's just her way to show her affection, also, if for example a man is not into BDSM, then a Dark Elf wouldn't marry him in the first place.

The prisoner in the monsters army are also treated nicely.

4 - Officially, there is a dozen, but KC mentions in the Q&A that there is more than 100 of them, probably so everyone could create his lilim without feeling like butchering the canon too much.

The two only canon lilim are Druella, the 4th daugther of the DL, and the Queen of Hearth, who create and rule Wonderland. (they have both their own page on the wiki).