User blog comment:Doctor Ibrahim/Asja Final Concept/@comment-28530195-20160821035208/@comment-28358106-20160821044626

Basically, once you get close (theough an RP or whatever), she stays in Whitemarch while you go do your thing. You visit her every few days so as not to trigger her social anxiety, building up her acceptance. That way she's a permanent part of your life while you stay the most important part of hers.