Board Thread:Questions and Answers/@comment-26570826-20150707031341/@comment-78.20.131.40-20150707102050

Well, since they do care about their mate's happiness, and since the setting does not prevent you from indulging your hobbys, she'll travel with him. And should it be one that's not very mobile (like a Dryad or Matango), I think that they'll realize they're not compatible with him to begin with and not claim the man as a husband.

And about the Dark Angel, I don't think every single one of them kidnaps their husband. Certainly not if he's happy where he is.