Talk:Eros/@comment-29325824-20170211145504/@comment-31729550-20170418130628

Infidelity is more than just 'stepping out on a spouse' sex wise. It's also Betrayal. I think CursedItemMerchent comes closest.

I'm thinking that for whatever reason a spouse chooses to betray their other, it's the kind of thing that draws her ire. Marriage is about putting the needs of the other above your own- and yeah both of you do that. That what makes it work (It does for me 30+ years).

But when someone tilts that balance in favor of their wants and their needs all of the time. And starts to not give a damn about the consequencs of their choices- THAT is what gets Eros Anger.

That one chose to violate the covenant of marriage either in small ways for a long time- unrepentedly, or in a sudden major way. Sort of like what happend to Macbeth's wife.