Really, I'm just going to come out and say any Mamono if you really want. Yes, even from the Hellhound and Manticore.
I've read a story with an Inari that had some gentle femdom so you could go with that one.
Really I thought Hellhounds are more agressive femdom and didn't have much of a comforting side.Â
Again, it can be almost anything you want to be within reason. The disposition stuff should be thought as a stereotype, generalization, or outline for the Mamono.
Personal headcannon for the Hellhound: For her husband at least, she's basically the one in charge in the relationship, but she wouldn't be against cooking her husband a meal.
She'll also "demand" belly rubs and ear scratches.