Just like anyone here, I love monster-girls. Hell, I browse a crap-ton of images, fanarts, mangas, doujins and even games.
But over time, I keep seeing a recurring theme about monster-girls, something that's been bothering me for a while and it's been likely addressed before: femdom. MG's that are pretty domineering, to the point of total control. Why is that such a problem ? Why all this nonsense about a random fetish ? Because I find it scary.
Terrifying even. Because often times I get to see some great vizual art, sadly acompanied by rather unconfortable contexts.
You have MG's that like to exert control on whoever gets close to them, and while that's just something innocuous, I sometimes see depictions of it that's just plain unconfortable to me.
Stuff like stepping on men, intimidating them through fear tactics, forcefuly pinning them down or deviously tricking their trust, threating them maliciously or toying with them at their mercy, using words like 'slave' or 'cum-pump' in derogatory ways, using men just as play-things or morsels to feed on or just being hyper-predatory in general.
To which I want to ask: what measure is a domineering MG ? Where do you draw the line between being-on-top and downright abuse or cruelty ? Now, in MGE, that's out of the question: no Mamono would be abusive towards their mate (despite the numerous uninspired fanfics would depict).
But what about other universes or settings ? Is it okay for MG's to be this predatory ? I know some people like that, but to me it started to make me uneasy about other settings and I hope to hear other peoples opinion.