Very tough call between jorogumo and atlach, but I guess maybe I’ll say the latter by a slight margin. And I don’t care too much for any of the others.
You’ve been open about which kind of monsters you like, so I’m not going to tell you you’re wrong about the monsters you like. But, none of these are really sadistic in my mind. That implies enjoying inflicting pain, and I don’t see that. Dark elf like, makes a man come to enjoy being dominated by her. Amazon is assertive about how her husband lives. Ogre and girta are like, aggressive, and enjoy being bigger than their man, but that’s not like, violent. Atlach is kind of mean as a consequence of the venom running through her body. It’s a kind of play that she enacts with a man. But it doesn’t make her cruel
Jorogumo I’ve always really liked, for a slightly different read of her profile. I imagine the night face is one that likes to tie up her husband and go really hard, he likes being bound in threads, but it doesn’t mean she’s hurting him. And then she reverts back when it’s day